blog oh blog~

masa: 9.37 minit mlm


memang sesungguhnya benar biarlah bila diri ini merintih,
rintihlah pada ALLAH SWT.
bukan pada blog.
ada blog utk dinukil, bukannya ia blh menolong kita selesaikan atau ungkapkan ape yg berlaku dlm diri.

namun, ini masih menjadi tempat utk meluahkan perasaan,
yang terbuku jua yg terpendam.
kenapa ya?
entah..diri sendiri pon xdpt memberikan jwpn yg kukuh.

masing2 ada cara masing2 utk meluahkan perasaan mereka.
kalau tidak pada keluarga,org terdekat, laman blog yg menjadi tempat persinggahan.
hanya sekadar utk sedapkan hati sendiri.
cukuplah. cukuplah sekadar blog sebagai tempatku beremosi.

disini, hanya diri yang lebih memahami.
begitu kah?
Wallahua'lam.
sendiri tentukan. =)

maaf kerana diri hanya mampu meluahkan apa yg terfikir dibenak fikiran buat saat dan ketika ini.tiada skrip juga tiada susunan perkataan. maaf dipinta bagi yg membaca.
when something just came straight to my mind, just typed it.itu caranya.

jgn khbrkan caraku tidak tersusun dlm nukilan.
mmg pun. diri tahu itu.
terima kasih. =.=


xtau kenapa mlm ni emosinya begini..

bkn nk melebihkan emosi,tidak.
akal jauh diletakkan dihadapan,
tetapi seperti ada sesuatu untuk dibicara
kerana itu memulakan kata-kata.


(^_^)

apa?

PERLU KAH??


hmmm....
tiada makna dan pengertian..
fahamkan duhai diri.


Tenang setelah segalanya dilepaskan?
atau
tenang bila dipendam sebaliknya?

pandai-pandai lah diri membuat keputusan
utk diri sendiri.

(^_^)



nice quote taken by shbt2kuh..

DENGAR jgn percaya
LIHAT jgn percaya
ada AKAL fikir
Kemudian timbang pula dengan IMAN. =)

Wallahu'alam.

tahun 2010

masa: 10.04 am
kondisi: cerah.
kondisi diri: tenang, blank , blur


pengalaman yang ditimpa, dijadikan ajaran dijadikan bekalan.
buat pengajaran di masa depan.

tahun 2009 ditinggalkan, tahun 2010 bakal mendatang.
banyak yang berlaku,byk yang terjadi.
baik buruk suka duka asam garam kehidupan.
bukan kata bila tahun baru menjelang, ia jua ditinggalkan.
kelak kita tidak tahu bagaimana jadinya
berdoa dan bertawakal agar dipermudahkan urusan oleh-NYA.

moga yang bakal mendatang, mendapat keberkatan dan keredhaanNYA.
Amin amin ya Rabbal A'lamin.

Akal & EmosI

pabila hati tidak kuat
iman naik dan turun
saat dan ketika itu diri tidak sendiri.
ada yang meneman dan yang pasti ianya bukan yang baik.

saat hati dan iman berperang
adakala emosi bercampur baur
ketika itu tindakan dan keputusan main peranan.

EMOSI dihadapan menghasilkan keputusan melulu.
ikutkan bisikan syaitan,NAFSU yang terikut.

AKAL dihadapan menghasilkan pemikiran dan tindakan rasional.
tenangkan diri dan bertindak dengan sebetulnya.

pelbagai cara boleh digunakan utk selesaikan masalah.
tapi yang penting,beringatlah wahai diri...
bila buat sesuatu perkara,biarlah
AKAL SENTIASA DIHADAPAN DAN BUKANNYA EMOSI.

(berharap diri sentiasa ingat pesanan itu)
syukran jazilan sahabtku yang membuatkan ku memegang kata-kata ini.
semoga diri sentiasa beringat.
Wallahua'alam.

Redha

masa: 10.05 pagi
kondisi: hujan renyai2
kondisi diri: lebih tenang dr sebelumnya..:)


redha dengan segala keputusan
bersyukur dan ikhlas menerimanya
mungkin bukan milik kita,kerana itu kita tidak memilikinya
berusaha dengan lebih tekun
agar esok akan menjadi milik kita.

usah berputus harapan
semua yang berlaku ada hikmahnya
ambil kesilapan itu sebagai satu pengajaran
penggerak untuk masa hadapan.
supaya bergerak kehadapan

bila sekali jatuh, tidak bermakna jatuh selamanya
ada yang sekali jatuh,akan datang bangun dan bangkit semangat semula
manakala,
ada yang berjaya,lalu leka dan kemudian jatuh dipertengahan jalan.
untuk jadi yang terbaik
Berusaha,berusaha dan teruskan berusaha dan tidak lalai dan alpa'
tawakkal kepada ALLAH dan berserah kepadaNYA.

ALLAH tau apa yang terbaik buat hamba-hambaNYA
apa yang DIA berikan,kena pada waktunya
mungkin hari ini bukan waktu dan peluang kita
tetapi,
mana tahu, hari esok dan hari yang mendatang akan menjadi milik kita.

apa yang penting,
ketetapan dalam pemikiran
sentiasa positif dan optimis
insyaALLAH, diri kemudiannya tenang dengan segala situasi.
sentiasa ingat ALLAH SENTIASA DI SISI.

AMIN AMIN YA RABBAL A'LAMIN.

husnuzon!

masa: 10.08 mlm
kondisi: normal
kondisi diri: mix emotions??!.hmm..



FARA HAZWANI!! jauhkan su'uzon..nauzubillah min zalik. perbanyakkan husnuzon fara hazwani...igt tu!!..hmm...

YA ALLAH, Kau dekatkanlah hati hambaMU ini kpdMU YA ALLAH.
KAU berikan lah petunjuk kepadaku
KAU lindungilah aku di bwh payung RahmatMU YA ALLAH.


YA ALLAH,jauhkan lah diriku dari godaan dan hasutan iblis & syaitan. tenangkan & lapangkan lah hatiku ini.. AMIN AMIN YA RABBAL A'LAMIN.

hmm..

10 Principles for Peaceful Life…

masa : 3.20 pm
kondisi: cuaca yg nyaman & redup.

1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked.

Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, i.e. our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently undermines the Intelligence and Creativity that is only attributed to God.
God has created each one of us in a unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because Allah has made each one of us different, with different personalities. Be patient with one another, and mind your own business and you will keep your peace.

2. Forgive And Forget:

This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind, but also challenging to achieve. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insult us or harm us. We nurture grievances resulting in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. We further aggravate stress in ourselves by remembering, and reminding ourselves of the very persons that caused us harm. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.

3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:

This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless; they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Do your duties ethically and sincerely, and only seek the pleasure of Allah through salah and ibaadah.

4. Do Not Be Jealous:

We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbour whose business is only a one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No. Remember, a person's life is shaped by their destiny, which becomes their reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. And if you are destined to be poor, then no matter what you do, you will only be what you are destined to be. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind.

5. Change Yourself:

If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.

6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:

Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power.

7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:

We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, and introspection. It will prevent you from thinking of matters that upset you. An uncluttered mind is a peaceful mind.

8. Make Regular Dhikr:

Dhikr, the rememberance of Allah, calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. Try it yourself. If you do tasbih, dhikr, whenever you are free, your mind will be at peace during the day. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before.You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.

9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:

An empty mind is the devil's workshop. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile and negative thoughts will not plague your mind. Actively follow a hobby, something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.

10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:

Do not waste time in protracted wondering, " Should I or shouldn't I?" You can never plan enough because you can never fully anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done now. It does not matter if you fail the first time, so long as you don't leave it for tomorrow. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen. Why cry over spilt milk?

Think Positive

source: copy & pasted from :forums.adageonline.org


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